how do i keep myself safe from bad guys?
i’m 29 yrs old married for 5 yrs. my husband left on a business trip for 3 months. its only been 3 days but all the men in our neighborhood (and even our watch-man) who know my husband has left, have started hitting on me 
i feel so angry, sad, embarrassed and i love my husband so much. i’m completely faithful to him. has any other woman experienced anything like this. this is the first time i’m living alone at home without a man. i have no family here, no relatives either. i’m so scared all night that i stay awake till the sun comes up. i feel very insecure now and i use to think i’m a strong woman you know. not any more. what can i do to feel more secure? how can i keep a low profile (i’m considered pretty and thats also a problem) how should i deal with men who hit on me? please help!
i’m really scared of dogs so i can’t adopt a dog either. any other suggestions plz
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these men can’t do a thing without your inviting them in and letting them. u just have to be true to who u are, men will hit on u, but u can also put them in their place too.
If you are 29, and asking yourself these questions, you must be extremely insecure ! Tell "these men" to back off.
omg, where do you live, with these kind of sickos around you?
Stay strong. Im a guy and if i had to leave, i wouldnt want my woman gettin violated by anyone else. Try web-cams to keep u guys connected.
When guys hit on you, just take it as a compliment and move on.
aids get aids and tell them
You need to get yourself some confidence girl, and show these men you have a backbone. You don’t need to be rude or piss these guy’s off…that would probably be a stupid mistake…..but be very assertive and very direct when they "come on to you" and make it clear that you are married and very happily married to. What kind of neighborhood do you live in that you are afraid to go to sleep at night?? After you’ve locked up your doors/windows…. why are you still afraid?? Are these men thugs or what?? If that’s the case, then you need to install an alarm system in your home…..or move.
do u have any friends that are girls? invite them for sleepovers. that should keep u companied. lock the doors and windows. have the police number on speed dial. keep your cell phone near. (in case of emergencies) u might wanna leave the lights on at night to show them that ur awake,so they won’t think of sneaking in. try paper with human forms in front of the lights so it looks like there are many people home. don’t let them know that u bought those things. try buglar alarm also^^.
Oh no everyone is out to get you.
It sounds like you might be alittle concieted. Maybe your exaggerating alot of this in your head.Just lock your doors and be aware of your surroundings and you should be just fine.
Buy a gun.
Buy a gun and flash it around when you are outside to let them know that anyone comes in univited gets a free trip to the morgue.
Hey Melissa!!! Get a grip!!! You feel insecure cuz you are insecure!!! What the hell…..?!!! You’re scared at night and you stay awake until the sun come up?!!!! Okay…so lock the door…duh!!! So you’re pretty…so what!!! Tell them to back the f#@! off!!!
You sound really pathetic. And you’re 29? These men only hit on you cuz you’re giving them vibes that it’s okay. I don’t think you’ve told us everything. I think you’re leaving out a big chunk of the story.
Are they hitting on you or are they just being friendly and helpful and are you reading too much into it.
I think the fear is clouding your judgement on that. Ensure good locks and keep them locked it is all you can do.
My husband is away on business on a regular basis. Shortly he is away for a month. Yet I do not seem to have the same issues, but then again I do not confuse being helpful with hitting on. For the record I am not an ugly monstrosity that repulses men, I am considered quite attractive.
It is in your head and you are just feeling lonely
Sorry but I’m with chacha here. You are 29 !!! What a drama queen.